Get your man on a tight leash with these easy ways to turn him on
#1 Ditch the bra
Men are simple creatures! and an illicit eyeful of boobs is a surefire way to get his blood pumping. Leave your bra at home and when he least expects it seductively lean forward so he can see right down your top.
#2 Wiggle your bum in his crotch
Rubbing your bottom against his crotch will get him standing to attention. If you are both stood together lean back and gently wiggle against him. The thrill of being in a public place and the anticipation of what's in your jeans will make him very attentive.
#3 Go commando
A progression from step 1: leave your knickers at home and then subtly whisper in his ear that you have none on. The thought of you being exposed and ready for action will have him drooling in anticipation. An alternative is to slip your sexiest knickers in his pocket when you return from the ladies. The more formal the event the more effective this will be
#4 Take control
Confidence is a big turn on: men love women who take the lead. Your man loves to know if his girlfriend enjoys sex as much as he does so by taking the lead this sends out the message loud and clear.
#5 Stroke his ego
Men are all a little insecure underneath so make him feel good about himself and fluff his feathers. Tell him what a sexy stud he is or anything flattering about the shape and size of his penis or how much you love it. Very important to sound sincere when doing this!
#6 Buy yourself kinky boots
Think trashy, think sexy, think porn starry. You're not buying boots to wear out of the house, you are buying for the bedroom so go outrageous. Thigh high PVC boots with stockings will get the TV turned off faster than you can say: I went shopping today darling.
#7 Be his sex slave
Offer to play a game and the loser has to be a sex slave for the evening. You will have polished his male pride for winning but more importantly he will be so excited at the thought what you are going to do he won't even notice you lost on purpose.
#8 Put on a show
Men love visual stimulation and the biggest turn on of all is watching a women pleasure herself. This is actually a double bonus as by watching he can learn what really turns YOU on.
#9 Use some adult toys
Progressing from #8 you can make this even more stimulating by introducing a vibrator or dildo. He will get so excited watching you insert the sex toy that you probably won't get chance to finish by yourself.
#10 Be his fantasy
Everybody has their secret fantasy that is their biggest turn on. Look for clues as to what his may be or during an intimate moment get him to open up and share what excites him. Get into the swing of it and maybe throw in some erotic clothing or kinky adult toys for a thrill.
Monday 28 March 2011
Put The Sizzle Back in Your Marriage: Five Easy Ways
It can be a challenge to keep the passion alive with a long term partner but with a little effort the rewards are very much worth it. Sex in a long term relationship is much more rewarding from the intimacy a couple share. You both know each other very well and know each others likes and dislikes. If things have been a little stale in the bedroom inject some passion back into your sex life with these mens and womens sex tips:
#1 try something new
Okay, an obvious start but routine and familiarity are major passion killers. You rub button 1 then 2 and push button three, get on top for five minutes and it's all over; not very sexy. Communicate with your partner: each of you write a list of things you would like to try. Put each one on a piece of paper, fold and put in a jar. Take it in turns to pick a piece out of the jar and give it a go. It could be dressing up in a sexy outfit, daring to have sex in a restaurant toilet or driving home in the car naked. Go crazy and let your imagination run wild; the golden rule is be prepared to try anything once.
#2 Playing games
The key here is not what you play, scrabble, connect four, snap: it's how you play the rules. Turn ordinary board games into kinky sex games by trading sexual favours and forfeits. the format of a structured game will make it easier for you to ask for something you would like: a strip tease, a blow job or spanking. Playing games and demanding sexual favours will inject some real fun into your relationship. You can buy adult sex games and sex vouchers online but you can use any ordinary games too.
#3 Go to the Gym together
Exercise can work wonders on your libido and sex life, especially if you are out of shape. You will gain more confidence as your toned body emerges. Your brain releases feel good endorphins which help you relax. It releases testosterone which is a sex drive boost in men and women. And the smell of fresh sweat is packed full of pheromones which are a major turn on. All in all going to the gym is such a boost of chemicals and confidence you won't be able to keep your hands off each other.
#4 Make an appointment to get it on
Kids, work, housework, homework etc etc: how busy is your life? Exhausted? no wonder your sex life is suffering. With all the other demands we have in our manic lives our sex lief can be one of the first things to get shelved when we don't have the time or energy. It can seem impossible to make time but you have to make time: book an appointment in both your diaries that neither of you is allowed to cancel. Try an early night: get a take out so you don't have to cook, have a lie in at the weekend: book a baby sitter so you don't have the kids. To really spice it up arrange to go to your partners office for an hour over the desk at lunch time (make sure you lock the door!) Just the thought and anticipation of having time scheduled for nooky can bring a thrill to your life and bring you closer together.
#5 Get away from the house
Have some indulgent adult time together: book a dirty weekend away. Rediscover each other away from all your stresses. You can make it ever more exciting by both arriving seperately and pretend to have an affair. Go crazy on the room service and treat yourself to champagne, don't leave the room all weekend: have a love in. Buy some erotic lingerie and stock up on massage oil and kinky toys.
If money is tight you don't have to go to a hotel. Enjoy a sexy staycation at home, just make sure to get rid of the kids and tell everyone you are away so you're not disturbed. Turn off the phone, load the fridge with tasty nibbles and champagne and go to bed for the weekend.
It only takes a little imagination to turn a dead relationship around. The keyword is effort; laziness and complacency are the biggest passion killer around. Read more womens sex tips to ignite some fire in your relationship.
#1 try something new
Okay, an obvious start but routine and familiarity are major passion killers. You rub button 1 then 2 and push button three, get on top for five minutes and it's all over; not very sexy. Communicate with your partner: each of you write a list of things you would like to try. Put each one on a piece of paper, fold and put in a jar. Take it in turns to pick a piece out of the jar and give it a go. It could be dressing up in a sexy outfit, daring to have sex in a restaurant toilet or driving home in the car naked. Go crazy and let your imagination run wild; the golden rule is be prepared to try anything once.
#2 Playing games
The key here is not what you play, scrabble, connect four, snap: it's how you play the rules. Turn ordinary board games into kinky sex games by trading sexual favours and forfeits. the format of a structured game will make it easier for you to ask for something you would like: a strip tease, a blow job or spanking. Playing games and demanding sexual favours will inject some real fun into your relationship. You can buy adult sex games and sex vouchers online but you can use any ordinary games too.
#3 Go to the Gym together
Exercise can work wonders on your libido and sex life, especially if you are out of shape. You will gain more confidence as your toned body emerges. Your brain releases feel good endorphins which help you relax. It releases testosterone which is a sex drive boost in men and women. And the smell of fresh sweat is packed full of pheromones which are a major turn on. All in all going to the gym is such a boost of chemicals and confidence you won't be able to keep your hands off each other.
#4 Make an appointment to get it on
Kids, work, housework, homework etc etc: how busy is your life? Exhausted? no wonder your sex life is suffering. With all the other demands we have in our manic lives our sex lief can be one of the first things to get shelved when we don't have the time or energy. It can seem impossible to make time but you have to make time: book an appointment in both your diaries that neither of you is allowed to cancel. Try an early night: get a take out so you don't have to cook, have a lie in at the weekend: book a baby sitter so you don't have the kids. To really spice it up arrange to go to your partners office for an hour over the desk at lunch time (make sure you lock the door!) Just the thought and anticipation of having time scheduled for nooky can bring a thrill to your life and bring you closer together.
#5 Get away from the house
Have some indulgent adult time together: book a dirty weekend away. Rediscover each other away from all your stresses. You can make it ever more exciting by both arriving seperately and pretend to have an affair. Go crazy on the room service and treat yourself to champagne, don't leave the room all weekend: have a love in. Buy some erotic lingerie and stock up on massage oil and kinky toys.
If money is tight you don't have to go to a hotel. Enjoy a sexy staycation at home, just make sure to get rid of the kids and tell everyone you are away so you're not disturbed. Turn off the phone, load the fridge with tasty nibbles and champagne and go to bed for the weekend.
It only takes a little imagination to turn a dead relationship around. The keyword is effort; laziness and complacency are the biggest passion killer around. Read more womens sex tips to ignite some fire in your relationship.
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